My Cousin (meant to be video)
I went swimming and left at 1:45, which was when I realized my mandatory orientation started at 1; we dropped off my cousins at home and I went in my swim shirt and shorts (I don't wear shorts outside of pool).
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In my last video where I put on my swimming cap (which I have still not succeeded in doing), I said I bared slight resemblance to my cousin, who saw that and sort of acknowledged it but mostly was confused. Speaking of my cousin, he has this problem with hypocrisy and has slight misogynistic tendencies.
Hypocrisies:
- calls me sarcastic/paranoid/boy: Him calling me a boy is sarcastic (and I am just being deadpan and not very tonal) and he is throwing an insult directed at him (paranoid) back at me for no apparent reason (I am opposite of paranoid).
- "I'm 10, not stupid."
"Misogyny":
- mockingly calls me boy. There was time where I acted/seemed more feminine than usual and was called girl (fair enough) but now I have short hair and he mocks me for being "boy", which is fine as someone presenting as masculine; however, he repeatedly restated my gender (which my relatives agreed would be annoying) and made fun of me for it as if my "male presentation" was illegitimate and that I should present more femininely...?
Also, disdain for females might seem misogynistic. Now I understand he will likely grow out of this and it's not as drastic as usual, but he's older than people in drastic stages and it's not something I see in most people his age, leading me to think this is not supposed to be case. Whatever -- he will probably grow up.
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